Family is so important. They are the ones that are there for you when you need a hand. They stand by you throughout your life and support you in your endeavors. They pick you up when you are feeling down and celebrate with you when you succeed!

Unfortunately, the saying is true, you can choose your friends, but you can’t choose your family. It’s for this reason that I think it’s so important to spend the time nurturing your family unit right out of the gate. Setting aside that time to grow those family bonds is so crucial to strengthening the family bond. If you can make an effort to create family togetherness a part of your regular routine, and continue to do so as your children grow and change from babies to children to teenagers and adults – I really do believe that your children will always look to you and the strength of their families to help them through the ups and downs of life.

The reality is, in today’s day and age, we are so busy that sometimes it’s difficult to set aside time to focus on your family. How about adding a weekly game night? Or setting aside one night a week for a home cooked family dinner with no television? Is your family musical… what about having family sing a-longs? Or maybe your family loves doing activities. Consider a weekly family music class! A Kindermusik Family Time class is a great way to strengthen your bond and everyone benefits from music and movement together!

Music has been a huge part of my life since the day I was born. My mom has a beautiful voice and she used to sing to me all the time as a baby, not that I remember that in particular, but I do think that’s what began my love affair with music. I do, however, have extremely fond early memories of my family having these wonderful sing a-longs together. My parents would grab their guitars gather my 2 sisters and I in the living room or at my cottage and we would sing and play the night away! We jammed a lot of tunes including songs by Peter, Paul & Mary, Neil Diamond, John Denver, Simon & Garfunkel. Hands down, the family favourite was Puff the Magic Dragon! My parents even took us to the Peter, Paul & Mary concert at the O’Keefe Centre – wow they were amazing!

I also have fond memories heading in to my teens of my Dad blaring The Nylons, Paul Simon, Hall & Oats, the Pointer Sisters, Tuck & Patti, Dire Straits and tons of musicals on the family stereo! And we would all sing along at the top of our lungs! And, since all 3 of us took piano lessons and were natural singers, we used to entertain the Aunts, Uncles and Grandparents at all of our family gatherings. It was the highlight of every event!

I studied music through high school and college and was lucky enough to forge some lifelong friendships due to our mutual love of music. Performing, studying and connecting with others through music was just a part of everyday life and seemed so natural.

As I grew into a young woman and made my way through the ups and downs of life, music was a constant that was always there for me. Music is so powerful. It’s my escape, my saviour, my celebration, my energy, my therapy. I don’t think there has been one break-up that I did not write a song about. In fact, once I wrote each of those songs, I knew it was over and found solace in that. Every time, without fail, that I grab my guitar or sit at my keyboard and spend hours singing my heart out (whether it’s by myself, jamming with friends, band practice and especially gigging) I feel like I am on top of the world! Every concern, every worry, every trial, every tribulation just melts away and all that exists is music.

So why do I love music? Because music is my true love.